long time no post

It’s been a while. I don’t have much access to a computer, which is one reason, and another is I have been really tired recently. Work is going well, but I feel like i’m being really slow. I don’t know if they think so too, but I’m scared if I try to go as fast as I can then I will make mistakes. A happy medium would be nice.

This weekend has been shopping for new apartment stuff. I got a couch from Salvation Army (it’s super comfy!!), a box of 18 different kitchen utensils, placemats, salt and pepper shakers, and a fajita grill. Yeah, I know that last one wasn’t a “necessity” but it was on sale and I thought, “Wouldn’t Paul love this!”

Sometimes it’s depressing to think that if the wedding hadn’t been cancelled, someone else would be helping finance my apartment. As it is, I have to do it all on my own. Why can’t there be any benefits for people who decide not to get married right after graduation?

My cousin and I hung out today which was quite fun. First we went to Penney’s which was having a store closeout sale, then we went car shopping which was fruitless and depressing (on my end). I do like having someone around who can go with me though. I just wish I could afford a decent car, and not looking at the old beat up 15 year old car and saying “this is as much as I can afford”. I need a rich relative to buy me a car. :-) Actually, what I hate most is this searching. I wish someone else would go find a car, tell me it’s the best deal, and I can trust that opinion and pay for it and be happy. That sounds nice to me.

This weekend passed too quickly. I am eager to get into my apartment, although this time with my aunt and uncle has been nice. I miss my cats a lot, and I miss having space to spread out. I am grateful for this extra month of paychecks and no living expenses, which will help a lot.

Yeah that’s what’s been going on in my life. I hope that once i’m a bit more settled I will get back to blogging, but for now… this is what it’s going to be. :-)


goodbye, frances

Somehow last night Frances escaped from her cage and was found by my sister in my closet not moving… Poor little hamster. :-( No one has a clue how she got out of her cage or exactly what killed her, but our guess is maybe out of fright (perhaps because of the cats and/or dog) she was able to squeeze out and then had a heart attack or something.

I’m sad. :-( And I’m wondering if I should get another hamster. If it was the cats, then I don’t want to get another one and have it die too. Hamsters are fun but they don’t mix well with cats.

I’ll think about it later.

In other news… my job is going really well. I’m happy with the stuff I’ve been doing so far, and this 8:30-5:30 schedule of working is much better for me health-wise than the 3pm – 3am schedule at that last place I worked in Orlando. Zeke joined me at work this week – I think he likes it. :-) People keep commenting on how pretty he is, and he likes to show off whenever he can tell that people are watching him. :-)

On Monday I put in an application for an apartment, so we’ll pray that it’s acceptable! She said the only way I won’t be accepted is if I’m either a convicted felon or I owe money to my last apartment. Since neither of those apply to me, then I think I’m good. If I’m accepted, then my move-in date is April 29th – a little over 2 weeks away.

All I can think about right now is “apartment apartment apartment”. Let me see if there’s anything else going on… Oh, I love my new phone. As soon as I get my computer set up then I will be able to post the pictures I’m taking with it. I have unlimited picture sending so let me know if you want me to email you a picture of something. :-) I always thought camera phones were kind of silly, but I really use mine a lot! I was able to go back and trade the phone I got for Paul with a phone just like mine, and I mailed it to him yesterday. Soon we’ll be able to talk!!! I’m excited about that. :-)

My uncle was telling me that starting this summer (either June or July), cell phone companies are going to sell their phone lists to telemarketers so if you have a cell phone then you better register it with www.donotcall.gov.

That’s all for now! Tootles…!


today

Today was very interesting. It was a soap-opera day, like the kind that I felt like I experienced every day last semester. Today had nothing to do with my relationship with Paul, though, although I do have to point out that had things not changed last August, today would have been our wedding date. *sad sigh*

Let me give you a little background info for the events of today. Yesterday I got a new cell phone, getting onto a family plan with Paul (mobile to mobile minutes with Cingular! call me :-)). I’m super excited about that – I got a nice LG L1400 which is a camera phone too (it was inexpensive after rebate). I got Paul one of the free Nokia phones, because his one request was to not have a flip phone. I also upgraded my plan to include the multimedia – text messaging and picture sending.

The other thing you need to know is that I am pursing getting an apartment at my third but favorite option, even though it’s a bit of a wait. Yesterday they called me and said “I have to talk to you”, but I didn’t get the voicemail until after the office was closed. So today I called the leasing agent to find out what was up.

She told me that the people in the apartment I was planning on moving into are suddenly being indecisive about whether they want to actually move or not. This throws a damper in my plans, because the only other apartment available before mid-May is on a walk-in level. So now I’m unsure of what to do.

Meanwhile, when Paul and I had talked last night about the cell phone, he said he was willing to pay the extra $20 and get the camera phone even though it was a flip phone. So I drove over to the Cingular store to exchange his phone today – only to find out that they’re sold out. I also found out that the multimedia upgrade only works for my phone, not his too. I wasn’t not sure what to do, and right now Paul is almost incommunicado until he receives the cell phone I am going to mail to him on Monday.

After Cingular I drove to the apartment to talk to the leasing agent in person, and the situation hadn’t improved at all. I told her I was ready to pay the deposit and give her my application, and she said that she’d try to reach them tomorrow and let me know. So we’ll see.

After leaving, I called my mom and asked, “What should I do now?” My mom suggested that I continue to search for an apartment. I asked her if she thought it would be okay to have a walk-in level, but we’re both skeptical – about my safety, about the ease of breaking into ground floor windows and also about Peeping Toms. As I drive around, I am getting more and more frustrated because I can’t find anything in a good neighborhood for the price I can afford to pay, and because I have to worry about things like Peeping Toms because i’m a young single girl living by myself.

Finally I decided to head home, but first I stopped in Walmart to pick up a map of Atlanta. I wandered around there for a while, kind of in a daze. At one point I called my mom and asked her what I was supposed to buy again because I’d forgotten (I really wasn’t feeling my best). After I left I was driving on the interstate and my car started running funny. I looked at my gas gage, and it’s barely on empty… but I knew that’s what was wrong. I got off at the next exit (which of course was a residential area and not a gas station in sight). At the top of the exit ramp, my car died. The funny thing is there was a car broken down in the lane next to me. Fortunately (for all the people behind us) I was at the top of a hill so I was able to turn right and coast all the way down. The hill went back up again and my breaks finally worked (they weren’t breaking my coast at all which scared me). I called Roadside Assistance and got a towtruck on the way. A policeman came up and asked me to get out of the street, so I put the car in neutral and backed down the hill and into a driveway. At this point I completely broke down into tears. The owner of the where I was parked came out and told me her husband’s coming home and I needed to get out of the way. I apologized for being in her driveway, and explained the situation, and asked her if she had any ideas.

While I was standing there, this guy pulls up – at first i think it’s her husband, but it was a man asking “is this the residence of ___” (didn’t catch the name – Beth Z. called at that minute and so I dealt with that). The lady said, “How can I help you?” (not very kindly which kind of surprised me). Then I overheard the man say something about “warrant for his arrest” and “you tell your husband…”. He was really obnoxious/threatening and she just shouted, “Go away! Save it for court!” As he left, she asked me to get his license plate number which I did.

She went inside (to write it down I presume) and then came back, and we decided for me to put the car in neutral again and coast to the grass across the street (I’m on a hill, remember). Oh yeah, the tow truck had called to say he’s on his way. I moved my car and was sitting there… I was a little worried because it was almost 7 and getting dark. The lady’s husband came home (she had sat outside watching me the whole time – I don’t think she trusted me, but after the strange man who threatened her I don’t blame her). Her husband came over with a gas container and poured it in my gas tank even though I told him the tow truck was supposed to be there any minute (like I said, I don’t think they were comfortable with me sitting there – I wasn’t sensing that they were doing it out of compassion although they were nice to me). I decided to drive away – he put 5 gallons in, so I knew I could make it to the next exit… I called the roadside assistance and cancelled the tow truck.

I drove to the next exit and found a gas station. I saw about 15-20 men just standing around there (later I found out that they wait at that corner looking for day labor jobs). I was super nervous about getting gas because I hate gas stations already, and to have so many guys just standing around didn’t help, but everything was fine and I got back on the highway. My cell phone rang; it was the tow truck guy and right as I answered it – my phone battery (which had been going) died. I felt really bad because he was probably wondering where I was, but I had no way to reach him.

I finally made it home and spend the evening relaxing (nice long bath!) and trying to figure out how to download AIM onto this computer (doesn’t work – neither does GAIM – I went with Trillian).

I hope tomorrow is less eventful, and from now on – just because it hasn’t reached “empty” yet doesn’t mean there’s gas to be had.

Status of taxe: Federal-waiting on a document from parents; Indiana-started, can’t finish till federal is done; Florida-don’t have to worry about it, no florida state income tax!! yay :-)


almost one week

Well tomorrow is Friday, and it’s the last day of my first week of work. It’s been an exciting week… I moved to Atlanta, looked for apartments, started a new job, and have had to do all sorts of things like think about things I would need for an apartment and signing insurance papers, etc.

As I’ve mentioned, I’m working for a company that does mostly advertising for the furniture industry. I was really scared at first, since I’m just out of college and definitely not “experienced” in graphic design. But they’ve been great – they are easing me in, starting me on some simple projects that aren’t due until May. They don’t seem surprised at all about where I am as far as experience, so I’m glad I’m not letting them down. Right now I’m doing some customizations on ads for stores selling Ashley furniture (yes I know, it’s confusing! I hear my name everywhere!). I know I’m going to be getting into more complicated customizations maybe next week, and eventually designing my own things too.

So far, I really like it. The people are nice and easy to talk to. They are all friendly and don’t spend their time bashing their coworkers like some other places I’ve worked. They are extremely helpful and willing to show me the right way to do things. The office is cheery and like I mentioned before, I have my own little office (instead of cubicles). Right now it seems really bare… I want to put up posters (I think that would help) but I don’t know of what yet. I was thinking of doing black and white photography, maybe animals… The problem is I don’t want to have to buy a lot. My mom suggested that I hang my senior show, but I’m not sure about that.

Oh and something funny happened today. I left all my hosiery in Orlando accidentally, so I had to buy some so I could wear my skirts to work. Yesterday I went to Target and bought some, and this morning as I put them on I realized I accidentally got the wrong size. Not only did I get the wrong size but I got the “4X” which is the largest size that they come in! So I went around all day today with baggy hose that kept bunching up around my ankles. If I didn’t have many pairs at my parent’s house, I would buy some more, but it’s not worth it. I just keep having to laugh.

Note to self: Do taxes.


first day of work and other things

I’m here! In Atlanta, and have officially started work. I drove up here on Sunday which was an uneventful trip. Zeke (my fish) came with me, but I didn’t bring much else. I am staying at my uncle’s condo in Buckhead/Midtown (for those of you who know Atlanta) which means about 30-45 min to work. My cousin took me around yesterday apartment hunting, which was really nice. He just got a new apartment a week ago so he has a good perspective. With him driving, I was able to look around and not worry about getting lost.

The first one we went to claimed to be 950 square feet, for $580/month (a bit higher than most places). I walked in and wanted to cry. It was so small – maybe 700 square feet… There was ugly wallpaper (pink and blue) all throughout the apartment, and I might have been able to fit a couch in the living room. The whole place was rather run down. Now I can look back and laugh. I’m glad we were there first; everything after it was better. I was a little surprised that some of the most rundown places were also some of the most expensive.

I found three that are possibilities. One was in a more upscale-looking apartment complex. To my surprise, it was affordable (due to some specials they are offering). I am looking at 690 sq. feet, a gated community, very nicely tended grounds, and a very nice apartment. There’s a pool, a fitness center, car care center, and an activity center. I’m definitely interested in this one. The only thing I don’t like is the lack of washer/dryer connections. Also, the pet deposit is rather steep ($500).

Then there’s possibility #2. This one was 710 square feet, and one thing I remember about it was that the bedroom was huge. It also had washer/dryer connections, a gorgeous pool, a jacuzzi, a car care center, and a fitness room. There was a gate, which they said they were in the process of buying a new security system and then it would be closed all the time. The weird thing about the apartment complex was that the front was gorgeous, and the back was rather run down. The apartment I would have would be in the front. I’m curious though as to why the difference. The saleslady I was speaking with mentioned that they were under new management who was attempting to clean the place up (consequently, there had been a lot of evictions). I wonder if they had started in the front and were in the process of moving to the back. Actually, as I think about it, I’m not so sure I like this place as much.

The third possibility was definitely my favorite. The buildings looked well taken care of and the grounds were immaculate. The complex was gated and the pool was big and looked awesome. (I am a swimmer, so the pool is important to me.) There were three one-bedroom floorplans, but the one I’d probably get is 720 sq. ft. It has washer/dryer connections, and is the only one of the three with high-speed internet available (yes I know it’s not free but if i’m going to pay for it anyway, I might as well not have to pay for setup fees). This also has a fitness center, laundry, car care center, etc. However, the downside is that they are completely full until May. She said that anything that was available in April was snatched up immediately. This tells me it must be a good place to live. There is one person moving out April 15th, but I wouldn’t even be able to see the apartment until then, and earliest move-in on April 22nd. I didn’t particularly want to wait that long because 1) my dad who was going to drive all my stuff up from Atlanta is going to be out of town for 3 weeks starting April 20th, 2) my uncle doesn’t really have a lot of room for me here, and 3) it’s quite a commute to work from here and it would be nice to get closer. Also, I’m waiting on an address to do lots of things – update my driver’s license, get a library card, get a cell phone, etc. And since I can’t even see the apartment until after April 15th, then I don’t know for sure if inside it is going to be what I want.

So yeah, those are my choices. I might look around some more in the area and see if there is anything else.

Oh yeah today was my first day of work. I have my own office, which is awesome. I need to decorate it now. :-) I think I’m going to like it. I was really really sleepy today – I could hardly keep my eyes open. Unfortunately, that was the same time that my supervisor decided to show me how to do something. :-) Oh well. I will continue to work hard and have a good attitude!

More about the company later. And more about the apartments as I make my decision. :-) I think in the course of writing out this post I have narrowed it down to 2 possibilities! Maybe soon I will narrow it to one and be moved in. :-)